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The Mayonnaise Jar and Two Cups of Coffee

I recently read following post online, and although isn’t necessarily specifically related to photography. I still though that it was a must share!

When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with an unanimous “yes.”

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

“Now,” said the professor as the laughter subsided, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things–your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions–and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.

The sand is everything else–the small stuff. “If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

“Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first–the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. “I’m glad you asked.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.”

New Site

For those of you who actually take the time out of your busy schedules to check jarrydross.com for amazing new photos, you might have noticed some changes recently. Aside from a whole new look and feel. There are a few main changes. I scrapped the dropdown menu for portfolios and went with a thumbnail gallery page. Also, you might notice that on the portfolio pages the thumbnails are no longer “over” the images and are now permanently underneath.

This new site has been a long time in the making and am SUPER happy it is finally live. I can’t thank the folks over at liveBooks enough, especially Patrick O’Connor. Their customer service is well beyond the level of ANY other company I have ever experienced and I am truly grateful for them having been there.

When I got my first liveBooks site about a year ago now, I said this:

Being young in the photography industry isn’t easy. So, having a professional web presence is key. liveBooks offers professional websites that not only showcase your images beautifully, but increase website views and business. Now I am not just saying this because I can, I know from experience. After switching to liveBooks from my previous site, I noticed an increase in website traffic in a matter of hours!

If you think you can sign up for a free site to display your images on think again. Viewers will look at your site, and even before it is finished loading, they will leave because it looks cheap. Now that doesn’t mean your images are bad. They could be amazing, but they are just not presented well. liveBooks’ websites are based on presenting your images in the best way possible. Their sites will help you grow as a photographer and build your business… seriously!

The same still applies today.  liveBooks FTW.

Ps. Head on over to the main site! Click Here!

It’s Just A City [MONTREAL]

The following images are from a GOYA SHOOT (Get Of Your Ass and Shoot) inspired by Zack Arias. They are images from around Montreal.

Check ‘em out! Share ‘em & Enjoy ‘em!

Also! If you haven’t noticed, the blog got re-designed and the main site is on it’s way. At the bottom of each blog post is links to share the post. We can be best friends… if you share stuff  ;-)

Savannah Allen - You are such an inspiring person Jarryd, and your website is beautiful :)

Maggie - Awesome shots! :)

Caley - BEAUTIFUL, simply BEAUTIFUL.

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